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Reblogged from bronitomussolini
its easier to say “they” instead of “she/he” when you’re not sure about someone’s gender so stop acting like everyone is making your life complicated
What if somebody isn’t trying to look ambiguous, and it offends them that you don’t acknowledge their gender? Some people are really insecure about their appearances. It could be a flatchested girl with a masculine face. It could be a guy wearing a dress and makeup, but not quite pulling it off. It could offend both trans and cis people.
I’m not convinced referring everyone ambiguous as “they” is the most respectful option.